I've been observing pedestrians more now that I have a longer drive to work. Especially when I get close to downtown where pedestrians actually flock. I made a judgment this morning that an overweight woman CAN look much better than a slim counterpart. It's in the presentation. Curvy, well-dressed and confident trumps straight, frumpy, and unapproachable.
This doesn't mean that I want to remain overweight, but it was an epiphany of sorts. No matter what my weight, I can be more attractive by dressing well and trying to manifest charisma. Charisma is something that comes natural to many and is difficult to learn I suppose. I think it starts by being comfortable in ones own skin. I suppose I'm improving in that regard but have leagues to go!
Another observation of this morning. My shadow is a hottie! The sun blessed me with a glimpse of longer legs than I actually possess in the real world. Thank you morning sun and your 2 dimensional power of flattering my all too 3 dimensional bod. :)